Each of us lives by our own set of principles and perspectives — whether we are aware of them or not. They serve as the compass that guides our choices, our actions, and the way we face the world. Some people value fame, others cherish peace. Some chase success, while others simply wish to live fully in the present moment. And it is from these differences that life gains its richness and color.
Yet over time, we come to realize that not every rule remains true forever, and not every belief stays relevant. What once seemed like an unshakable truth in our twenties may fall apart by the time we reach forty. Through trials and changes, we learn to let go of rigid thinking — to find balance between dreams and reality, between ideals and the simple rhythm of everyday life.
One of the most important lessons is this: live by principles, but don’t be rigid. Principles help us stay upright in a world of chaos, but flexibility allows us to survive and move forward. Knowing when to stand firm and when to take a step back — that is the true strength of a mature soul.
I once believed that hard work alone could lead to anything I desired. But life has shown me that effort is not always enough. There are times when persistence is needed, and others when it is wiser to stop. Sometimes, acceptance is the only way to preserve our peace of mind. Failure itself isn’t what breaks us — it’s the stubbornness to chase what no longer serves us that truly wears us down.
Another rule I’ve learned to keep close is this: always be kind, no matter the circumstance. Not for recognition, but because kindness is how we respect ourselves. The world may not always be fair, but a kind heart always leaves traces — small, yet enough to make life a little warmer.
And never live just to please others. In youth, we fear being judged, misunderstood, or disliked. But eventually, we learn that living truthfully is the only life worth living. Others may not understand you today, but your sincerity will speak for you tomorrow.
Life has no fixed pattern. Each person has their own journey and perspective. Still, no matter how you choose to live, keep a few guiding rules — like red threads that keep your heart from drifting away:
• Always treat others with kindness.
• Work with integrity and responsibility.
• Keep your promises, even the small ones.
• Never stop learning and being grateful.
• And above all — never forget who you are, and who you want to become.
In the end, I believe this: our life principles aren’t learned from books — they are forged through pain, experience, and the times we’ve stood up after falling. We don’t need many rules to live by, only enough to help us remain kind, genuine, and at peace when we look back on the life we’ve lived.
