PROPORTIONS VS. DIFFERENCES: When Numbers Tell the Truth, But Not the Whole Truth, and What Changes Isn’t Just the Size of the Risk — But the Story We Tell About It

Two risks.

Two statistics.

Two ways of showing the same shift.


  • One says: The risk increased by 1%.
  • The other says: The risk doubled.



Both are true.

But one feels louder.

One feels urgent.

One grabs the heart

before the mind even checks the math.


This is the subtle divide between

proportions and differences—

between how much something grows,

and how big that growth really is.


And in this divide

lives misunderstanding,

manipulation,

and sometimes, mistaken fear.





The Pull of Proportion



A proportion is a ratio.

It says:

Relative to what was,

this is how much more.


  • “The risk doubled.”
  • “A 50% increase.”
  • “Twice as likely.”



These words sound big.

Because proportion scales feeling,

not just fact.


It tells us how quickly something changed,

but not how large the base was to begin with.


If risk rose from 1 in 10,000 to 2 in 10,000—

it doubled.

But is that the same as panic?


Not always.





The Grounding of Differences



A difference is solid.

Simple.

Plain.


It tells you:

This increased by 1 person per 10,000.

This many more were affected.


There is no drama in difference.

Just data.

And sometimes, clarity.


But difference can feel small.

Too quiet.

Unemotional.


And so in public discourse,

in headlines,

in persuasion—

proportion wins.

Even when it shouldn’t.





Why It Matters



How we frame a risk

shapes how we feel it.

And how we feel it

shapes what we do about it.


If a side effect risk doubles,

we may reject the drug—

even if the difference is negligible.


If a benefit is “twice as likely,”

we may chase it—

even if the gain is too small to matter.


Proportions play with perspective.

Differences bring us back to earth.


We need both—

but we must learn to ask:

Which am I hearing?

And what’s being left unsaid?





The Ethics of Framing



To communicate risk is to hold power.

To choose whether to say:

“It increased by 1%”

or

“It increased by 100%.”


Same data.

Different impact.


This is not just a question of math.

It is a question of integrity.


Because when we inflate fear,

or exaggerate hope,

we may win the moment—

but lose the trust.


And trust is the one statistic

you cannot easily repair.





A Closing Reflection



If you are making a decision—

based on data,

on claims,

on risks—

pause.


Ask:


  • Is this a proportion or a difference?
  • What does it sound like versus what it really means?
  • How would I feel
    if I heard this the other way around?



Because framing is a lens.

But truth is the light.


And to choose wisely,

we must clear the glass

through which the numbers shine.




And in the end, proportions vs. differences reminds us

that truth can wear many outfits—

and still feel like a stranger.

That how we say something

can matter as much as what we say.

And when we slow down enough

to ask not just, “Is this true?”

but “What does this truth actually mean?”

we reclaim our power—

not only to understand risk,

but to live with clarity,

and to choose with peace.